I have a friend from high school who is one of a very limited number of people I actually still talk to from that time. As a matter of fact, its very possible that these days he's the only person from high school that I talk to on a regular basis. And I went to an all girls school. Thats a whole other can of worms. Anyway. He is moving down to Pensacola, FL tomorrow for Naval Aviation School/Training/he's told me so many times but it doesn't stick. So I am very excited for him, because this is something he has worked for and he is very excited about, and I want to do something.
I know he is just in Florida doing his training and schooling type stuff. It's not as if he is going to be deployed anytime soon, I don't know how it works in the Navy vs. every other branch. In fact, for all I know he'll be coming home for holidays and breaks and it'll be just like going to college (once again, if anyone knows differently, just tell me. I am interested to learn.) But I still want to do something. Send him a package, a letter, something, to let him know I am happy for him, proud of him, and that I hope he is having fun and loving every minute of it.
The problem is, I don't know how close he feels to me, and how weird these options would be. Yes we talk semi often, but I don't know where I fall on the scale between acquaintance and close friend. I know I'm not an extreme of either of these, but I also don't know to which end I lie. I am afraid to try and do something like this, and it be perceived as creepy and/or weird. You know the feeling: when you are happy, but at the same time its like...uhhh what? Where did THAT come from? I would be asking him for his address so he'd know. I could go the route of an email, or a Facebook message, but those seem so...impersonal. For something like this, I wouldn't want to go that route because for me it seems very passing. and delete-able. Maybe its not! The point is I just don't know.
Does anyone have any advice? Am I just over thinking this? Am I being too girly and romanticizing the whole thing and I just need to get over it because hello, he's in Florida and it's just no biggie? What would you do?
Let me know?
Do it!
ReplyDeleteWhat do you have to lose? Would it hurt anyone? and most importantly, who doesn't love real life mail? :)
I'm sure he would appreciate your support!